Change Your Mindset, Change Your Life In my debut creative nonfiction novel, “Your crossroads. Your choice.,” I mention how I stumbled upon my new partner on this journey, who I refer to as M2. There is no way we would have connected so deeply if I did not have the beginnings of my current mindset when I met him. Yes, I said beginnings because changing how I look at myself, my life and my journey is an ongoing process – one I am happily enjoying everyday. If I was still wallowing in my fearful, unhappy, self-pity perspective I am certain…
If You Do This You Might Be Insane: Worry Is A Wasted Emotion
Postal Paper = Insane Roller Coaster As my key turned the pins within the lock the door cracked open. And a tiny, powerful piece of paper fluttered to the floor. With it went my heart and the beginnings of an insane roller coaster in my mind. What kind of paper could hold such power over me, you wonder? It was a notice of a certified letter. A letter that had to be delivered directly to me or picked up at the post office. I know, crazy right?! The insane scenarios and complete demise of my life flashed before my eyes…
You Are Here: The Proverbial Do Over
Yes, You Can Do Over The most amazing thing about life is the ability for a do over. I know you may think this is an impossible task but read the sentence again. Life can be done over. It is a cruel irony that hindsight is twenty/twenty. I think the ability to reflect and learn from our past choices is what drives us on. If we are able to look back at the decisions we have made then we can move forward with our eyes wide open. We have all encountered those maps that have a big red dot…