Change Your Mindset, Change Your Life In my debut creative nonfiction novel, “Your crossroads. Your choice.,” I mention how I stumbled upon my new partner on this journey, who I refer to as M2. There is no way we would have connected so deeply if I did not have the beginnings of my current mindset when I met him. Yes, I said beginnings because changing how I look at myself, my life and my journey is an ongoing process – one I am happily enjoying everyday. If I was still wallowing in my fearful, unhappy, self-pity perspective I am certain…
My Dirty Little Secret: A Post on Validation
Life is a Hot Mess and We are All Looking for Validation Raise your hand if you have fallen victim to browsing through Instagram, Facebook or any other social media platforms. I am guessing several of the things you saw made you instantly felt crappy about your own life. Why? Because you are looking at all the wonderful, seemingly effortless things the world is posting about. Newsflash here, everyone’s life is a hot mess and we are all looking for validation. In fact, the reason why people enjoy posting all of those amazing dinners, perfect outfits or workouts accomplished is simple….
If You Do This You Might Be Insane: Worry Is A Wasted Emotion
Postal Paper = Insane Roller Coaster As my key turned the pins within the lock the door cracked open. And a tiny, powerful piece of paper fluttered to the floor. With it went my heart and the beginnings of an insane roller coaster in my mind. What kind of paper could hold such power over me, you wonder? It was a notice of a certified letter. A letter that had to be delivered directly to me or picked up at the post office. I know, crazy right?! The insane scenarios and complete demise of my life flashed before my eyes…